The value of people.

Frequently I am taken aback when witness to direct rudeness from one person to another. It is common place, occurring every day. Just drive to work. You will be cut off, honked at, or worse by someone who pushes their own personal importance.

Someone said to me once that the problem with the world was simple. It is selfishness. If everyone were to just value others over themselves it would improve our condition. 

Idealistic as this may be, if the people around you feel valued by you. Would your life not improve because of it?

 

Always read, The Manual #1

The Manual #1 is the tip of the iceberg, underneath is the curated talent of six contributors. As a designer, this should be required reading. Period. Is this a good way to start the post? 

Three beautiful, illustrated hardbound books a year, each holding six articles and six personal lessons that use the maturing of the discipline of web design as a starting point for deeper explorations of our work and who we are as designers.

One short and powerful article "The Space Between You & Me" has sold me on the unique vision of The Manual. Giving a tangible look at distance in relationship to humanity and the space with which we interact, Frank Chimero's perspective is brilliant. Here are a few excerpts:  

The connections we make in the course of a life---maybe that's what heaven is, Tom. We make so many connections here on earth. Look at us---I've just me you, but I'm investing in who you are and who you will be, and I can't help it.   -Fred Rodgers (Mr. Rodgers)

Tom Junod, "Can You Say... Hero?" (Esquire, November, 1998)

When we think of ourselves, we picture our complex inner monologues: we believe that we are not simple but rather complex, romantic, self-contradicting---beautiful messes. ...
... Technology runs counter to personhood; technology is complicated and shallow, but people are simple and deep. Our true needs are not complex. I remember asking Brandon what everyone needed. His answer was profound and human: "To be understood." ...
... See, I've just met you, but I am invested in who you are. We are a part of a human network. Maybe that's heaven.

Frank Chimero "The Space Between You & Me" (The Manual #1, 2011) 

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Into the Fog

In thick fog there is something wonderful. Allowing you to focus on what is just in front of you and nothing more, it simplifies. To most it is a negative, our expectations pushing to be clear, accurate, and together. When things are uncertain, the mind thinks, hopes, imagines, and dreams. Into the fog I go.. Hope to find you there.